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Water Bottles – Rik Lonsdale

A huge thanks to local writer Rik Lonsdale for sending us this topical and timely story for the web even though we cannot publish this in the magazine.   Enjoy.

I was out for a run, my daily exercise, and I’d stopped to sit on a park bench for a couple of minutes to get my breath. That’s when I first saw him. I pulled an earpiece out. ‘Sorry, what did you say?’

‘I asked if I could sit here,’ he said.

‘Sure, it’s more than two metres away.’ I was putting the earpiece back in when he said, ‘It’s just that I need to sit down for a minute.’

That’s when I took a proper look at him. He was an old guy, maybe about a hundred, I don’t know, but ancient, wrinkly and grey. He was wearing a grubby old coat and he had a stick he was leaning on.  He tried to lower himself onto the bench but his knees sort of gave way halfway down and he landed with a thump. It knocked my water bottle over.

‘I’m sorry, really I didn’t mean to…’

‘Hey, it’s alright, nothing broken, nothing spilled, got the lid on see.’ I showed him the bottle.

‘What’s that? A vacuum flask?’ he said.

I laughed. ‘Haven’t you seen a water bottle before?’

‘Not that colour,’ he said, ‘and we used to call them canteens.’

‘What’s wrong with the colour?’

‘It’s a bit bright,’ he said.

‘That means I don’t loose it in the grass. I can see it miles away.’

I unscrewed the lid and took a drink. ‘No plastic, see, not like the old bottles. I’m doing my bit.’

‘Doing your bit?’

‘Yeah, for the environment, not using plastic, saving the planet.’

‘Good, it needs saving.’

‘I can’t offer you a drink, social distancing and all that.’

‘I’ve got my own,’ he said. He rummaged in the inside pocket of his old tattered coat and pulled out this ancient thing.

It was a sort of bottle, but it was wrapped up in some old, brownish cloth, and had frayed straps around it. Tatty it was, with holes in the cloth. I could see the dull metal underneath. Wouldn’t want to drink out of it myself.

I watched as the old man pulled a cork out of the top. A cork! Then he took a drink. ‘It’s always best to use your own canteen,’ he said.

I laughed. ‘It sure is,’ I said and took another swig of water, then watched as he took a swig from his bottle.

‘You don’t want to leave that anywhere,’ I said, ‘you’ll never find it again, that colour.’

‘That was the idea when I got it, that it’s hard to spot.’

‘Why wouldn’t you want to find it?’

‘Not me, hard for others to see,‘ he said.

‘It looks ancient. Where’d ’you get it?’

‘I got it when I was doing my bit,’ he said. ‘But back then we were only saving the country, not the planet.’

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Lockdown in North Dorset

We are living in strange times that mean many of us are locked in our homes for most of each day.

Aren’t we lucky to live in such a beautiful part of the country?   There have been many stunning photos posted on social media recently celebrating the seasons as they change.

We thought we would post some of our favourite shots from our walks around Gillingham, (social distance compliant).

Let us have your photos to add to the collection by posting them to

gillinghamguide@btinternet.com

Tell us where you took them, a little about them if you wish and who to credit for the photo.

The frosts haven’t quite finished with us

 

It’s too early for the mist to have risen and it sits just below the Shaftesbury ridge.

The blossom wakes up to in the early morning sunshine.

 

Amidst all the turmoil the Bluebells grow and bloom heralding another sunny day.

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Celebration by Rik Lonsdale

She was late.
He could tell as soon as she came in, before he even saw her. The lengthy pause between the opening and then crashing of the front door, the shoes kicked off rather than gently prised from her feet. And, of course, the singing.

He knew she couldn’t sing; she knew she couldn’t sing and the only time she sang was after she’d been to the pub. Tom had lost count of how many times he’d had the conversation with her, she had to stop, they couldn’t afford it, he couldn’t stand it. No matter what he said it all came back to this. She tried; she really did try. For maybe a week, ten days, it would be the old Rosie back again, but then she would fail again, and Tom was at his wits end.
He was standing with arms folded when she came into the kitchen. ‘You’ve been drinking again,’ he said.
‘I’ve only had a couple, I’m not drunk,’ said Rosie.
Tom could see she had been in worse states, but she certainly would be unfit to drive, and he was relieved she took the bus to work.
‘You’ve still been drinking, after all we agreed.’
‘I know Tom, but I was just…’
‘Don’t even bother trying to explain. I don’t want to hear anymore excuses, I’ve heard them all before.’
‘But Tom, really…’
‘Don’t say anymore, it won’t make any difference. We’ve already decided that this would be the last time for us.’
‘I was celebrating, that’s all.’
‘Celebrating! Again. What was it this time? The cat’s birthday, the anniversary of you first being sacked. You’re always celebrating and now the excuses have worn too thin.’
‘No, really, Tom this time it was a celebration.’
‘I hope you’ve been celebrating being single again, because I’ve had enough. You knew what would happen as soon as you stepped in the pub door. While you’ve been boozing, I’ve been packing.’
‘Tom, don’t go, really don’t, life will be different now.’
‘You make these promises all the time when you’re drunk and then never keep them. I can’t cope anymore. It’s time I thought about myself instead of you.’

Tom took the stairs two at a time when he went to fetch his suitcase. He was angry and
needed to use some energy. How could she do this again. She knew what it did to him.
He came downstairs and began putting on his coat.
‘You shouldn’t go, Tom, you really shouldn’t,’ said Rosie.
‘I’ll call for the rest of my stuff in a few days, when you’re sober.’
‘But Tom I was only celebrating…’
‘Just stop, don’t speak to me anymore, I’ve had enough of your lies and deception. I’m leaving.’
Tom slammed the front door behind him.
‘… winning thirty million on the lottery,’ said Rosie to the closed door. ‘I guess now I’ll have to spend it all by myself.’
And she smiled.

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Half a Heart Day

Last month at St Mary the Virgin CE Primary School and Nursery we held a ‘Half a Heart’ day to raise money for the charity ‘Little Hearts Matter’. This is a charity close to our hearts as we have a child, Imogen, in year 5 who has hypoplastic left heart syndrome (meaning she only has half a heart).

The charity offers help to anyone affected by the diagnosis of single ventricle heart condition. From initial antenatal diagnosis, through treatments and into life at home, the charity works with children, young adults and families to reduce the isolation, fear and lack of understanding created when a child is diagnosed as having half a working heart.

The children all wore red and blue clothes to school and we asked for a minimum donation of £1. We raised an incredible £240.20.

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Dyosa Aesthetics

On the 8th February, Dyosa Aesthetics opened at Fitness by Design Gillingham in the Old Market Centre. The launch was a success with quite a number of CJ’s old and new clients who popped in and got their free Vitamin B12 injections, £50 Off gift vouchers, free lip and face products, mini consultations and of course some tea, cakes and champagne!

Christine Joan Manalo, also known as “CJ” was an overseas nurse who has over 10 years nurse experience and began her aesthetics work in Dubai back in 2015. She then moved to the U.K. and acquired her nurse qualification straight away. However, her passion for aesthetics has led her to set up her home clinic and work on her free days offering beautification and aesthetics services when she is not doing her full time job at the local nursing home. C.J. carried on attending further training courses to advance her skills and to accommodate client demands.

However, due to the overwhelmingly increasing number of clients and with more equipment that came with the other new services, the little spare bed clinic was getting a bit crowded. C.J. then decided to move to a proper clinic where she could see clients 5 days a week (Tuesdays to Saturdays), registered the business as Dyosa Aesthetics Ltd., and offer more of a clinical environment for advanced aesthetics procedures such as facial injections and laser treatments.

Consultations are free for a wide range of services such as dermal and lip fillers, wrinkle relaxing injections, advanced anti-aging skin boost, fat-dissolve injections, semi-permanent make up, eyebrow microblading, microneedling medical facials, dermaplaning, BB glow etc. Laser treatments and mega volume eyelash extensions coming next month.
You can take a look at more details from www.dyosa.co.uk or perhaps if you are wanting to see photos of her work, her social media galleries (Facebook: Dyosa Aesthetics and Instagram: dyosaaesthetics ) are always updated with before and after pictures of various treatments with clients’ permission.
You can send her an email to dyosa_aesthetics_uk@yahoo.com or for quicker response to queries, you can contact her directly at 07398010517.
A fully insured Qualified Nurse Injector and Advanced Aesthetics Practitioner is the one to trust with all your basic to advanced aesthetics needs! Watch out for seasonal offers and discounts. Book your appointments now!

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Alfred Wins Shaftesbury Area FM Radion Licence

A group of Shaftesbury residents is celebrating after broadcast regulator Ofcom awarded their not-for-profit venture the community radio licence for the area. It means that Alfred, which has been creating online radio-style programmes or podcasts, will soon be available on FM radio, along with a host of other new local features and programmes.

“Alfred will be a unique radio station, tailor-made for Shaftesbury,” explained managing editor Keri Jones. Along with his fellow directors, he will be unpaid. All of the reporters, interviewers, announcers and performers on Alfred will also be volunteers.

L-R Kevin Harrison, Amber Harrison, Keri Jones, Karen Brazier, Andy Hargreaves

Alfred won’t try to compete with existing radio services and won’t play pop or commercially available music. Instead, it will champion local music and performers. “The research we undertook early this year indicated that local people know where to go for their favourite music, whether it’s pop, rock or classical. People are satisfied with existing national news provision too. Alfred will be all about Shaftesbury, Semley and The Donheads,” said Keri.

Overheads will be kept to a minimum with no paid staff, no shareholders and no music royalty fees. That means Alfred won’t be awash with adverts.

Ofcom recognised that key members of the Alfred team share an extensive professional broadcasting experience. The team will now begin training residents in the skills of radio programme making using everyday devices.

“With today’s technology, it is remarkably easy to record radio interviews, commentaries and features on your laptop, tablet or the phone in your pocket,” said Alfred director Amber Harrison. She says the Alfred Carnival podcast with Kipling Carnival Club members Matt and Steve Appleby is a superb example of how programmes can be made using phones and PCs.

The regulatory process is slow, and even though Alfred has been granted the licence, the station won’t start broadcasting until at least 2021. That gives the team plenty of time to train the host of volunteers who will soon be bringing this unique local radio station to Shaftesbury’s airwaves.If you want to join Alfred’s team, please email hello@thisisAlfred.com

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Shaftesbury Fringe 2020 – Open for Performers to Register

Registration has opened for Shaftesbury Fringe, with performers being offered a new, discount booking deal. And this year, organisers hope to transform the High Street into a space for public performance with artists displaying their creativity.

Shaftesbury Fringe co-chairman Rob Neely is urging members of Shaftesbury’s artistic community to help decorate the town during Fringe 2020 by showing their work and creating pop-up art pieces. “Art doesn’t have to be in the gallery,” explained Rob. “It could be in the street. It could be anywhere. It would be nice to have something a little more unusual, more fringe-orientated.”

Rob promises that the Fringe team will work on the logistics of displaying outdoor pieces if artists respond positively. “We can try and solve it,” said Rob. His message to our town’s artists is straightforward. “Get cracking. Art should be out there for people to see and I think it’s a blank sheet, really.”

Co-Chairman James Thrift believes the art in public spaces will help to make the event more prominent. “When you come into the town, you suddenly realise there are thirty or more venues and at any one time there can be thirty or more shows. But if you stand in the High Street, people wonder whether it is actually going on because it takes place behind closed doors,” he said. “It would be fantastic if we could utilise that space, whether that is music, performance art or visual art.”

If you want to take part in the 2020 event, or you know someone who might be interested, you can now reserve your place on the Fringe website. Last year, organisers introduced a discount for performers who register early. That fee reduction for each show is being offered once again. “They have a month to register – the whole of January – at the early-bird fee of £15 per show. After that it’s £25,” explained Rob.

All of the money raised from registration gets ploughed back into the festival. Much of the cash is used to promote and market the Fringe weekend and to encourage people to visit the town. And it works – the turnover of some businesses can be boosted by tens-of-thousands of pounds over the weekend.

If you would like to book your show, visit ShaftesburyFringe.co.uk.  Shaftesbury Fringe runs from 3rd – 5th July 2020.

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The Performance by Rik Lonsdale

Such was the demand for the best seats that people began arriving half an hour before the performance was to start. They queued in the dark and the rain before the doors opened.

The auditorium was full of hustle and bustle as the audience found their seats. There was no seating plan, so people sat wherever they liked. The early arrivals took their favourite spots, some up close in the front rows, some near the back. Many took aisle seats which meant lots of standing and sitting as later arrivals threaded their way into the vacant seats mid row. Tom and Melanie were two of those late comers, almost last to arrive they had to scan the rows to find a vacant pair of seats.

After the health and safety announcement about fire escapes the lights dimmed and an expectant hush settled over the gathered throng.

‘Is it a long performance?’ whispered Tom.

‘The usual length, why?’ said Melanie.

‘No reason,’ said Tom. Settling back into his seat he pulled a book from inside his jacket and opened it at the marked page.

‘What are you doing,’ hissed Melanie as actors began to fill the stage.

‘Well, I know the story, so I thought I’d catch up on some…’ several people made “hushing” sounds in the seats behind the couple and Tom stopped. He read the expression on his wife’s face and closed the book, returning it to his jacket pocket.

At the interval Melanie let Tom know exactly how she felt about him reading during the performance.

‘What’s the point of coming if you’re not going to watch it?’ she said. ‘I might as well have come on my own.’

Tom attempted appeasement. ‘You’re right, Mel, I’m sorry. It was stupid of me. It’s just that…’

Before Tom could explain himself the audience were called back for the second act.

‘And just make sure you leave that book where it belongs,’ said Melanie as they regained their seats.

At the end of the second act the applause was long and vigorous. Tom and Melanie both joined in with enthusiastic clapping. Then, after a few words of thanks from the director, the audience filed outside once again.

‘At least it’s stopped raining,’ said Tom as they mingled with the after-show crowd, none in a hurry to depart. ‘Do you think she’ll be long?’

‘No, I don’t expect so, look there she is looking for us,’ and Mel waved her arms and began calling, ’over here Sophie, over here.’ Sophie ran over to join them.

‘Did you enjoy it mum, did you see, was I good?’ said Sophie.

‘I did see you, you were very good,’ said Melanie taking hold of her seven-year-old’s hand.

‘Did you like it dad?’ said Sophie, slipping her hand into her fathers and swinging happily between her parents.

‘I loved it,’ said Tom, ‘you were the best “Mary” I’ve seen.’

His daughter beamed up at Tom while the words “this year” remained in his head, unspoken.

 

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Autumn Story by Rik Lonsdale

It was their first home together and, like many people, Jack and Beth wanted to make it special.

‘You know,’ said Beth, ‘things are going to have to change when Autumn comes.’

‘I know, I know. There’s a lot to do but I’m up to it,’ said Jack.

‘Well, it won’t be long now, so I hope you are,’ said Beth.

Jack was true to his word. Despite working all the overtime he could get, the young couple needed every penny, he still found time to tidy the garden and dig out the brambles and nettles that had taken root during the summer.

After spending a rare spare Saturday making sure all the fences were fixed and the paving was straight and level Jack paused for a few minutes. He went to the fridge to get himself a beer as a reward for a job well done only to find it was the last one.

That evening, as they relaxed, Jack said, ‘there’s no beer left. I’ll pick some up tomorrow.’

‘Are you sure we can afford it?’ said Beth, ‘Autumn will be here soon with all the extra expense. We don’t really know how much money we’ll need.’

‘You’re right, I can do without for a few months, until we see how we are.’

When the weather was fine, and he wasn’t at work, Jack would carry on working in the garden. When the weather was wet, he would work in the house, decorating and laying new carpet. Occasionally the couple would make a trip to the shops and buy something together, but not very often.

‘It won’t be long now,’ said Beth one day, ‘I think Autumn is just around the corner.’

Jack worked harder, did even more overtime. He was lucky, he enjoyed his work. But he didn’t enjoy it as much as being at home with Beth. But they both knew it was the best thing for them, for Jack to be earning as much as he could just now.

Then one Wednesday afternoon while he was at work Ben got a text from Beth. He told his boss he had to leave; Beth was in hospital.

He drove as quickly as he dare but the roads were narrow and twisty and it seemed like the day that every harvest tractor in the land was on the road. Eventually he made it to the hospital and found somewhere to park.

Jack ran into reception and asked the way to Beth’s ward. The volunteer receptionist told him, but also told him not to run. He had never walked so fast in all his life. Finally, he was at Beth’s bedside, she seemed to be sleeping, he didn’t know if he should wake her when she turned, opened her eyes and smiled at him.

‘What do think of Autumn, then?’ said Beth.

Jack reached down, tears glistening in his eyes.

‘She’s beautiful,’ he said, bewitched by the daughter he cradled in his arms.

 

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Gillingham Town Youth Girls Football Club

We are currently recruiting players for the 2019/20 season
This year Gillingham Town Youth FC are encouraging girls of all ages and abilities to play football.


With the response so far we are able to enter u11 / u13 / u15 Girls teams into the Dorset Girls league. We are always looking to bolster these squads. The Girls football sessions are every Tuesday evening at Kington Magna playing fields 6:15pm-7:15.pm, all ages and abilities are welcome. Come along and join in and if you enjoy you can choose to join up and start playing matches. Our home games are played on Saturday mornings.

If you are interested in playing or just after info please contact:

Steve Webber, GTYFC – Head of Girls Football, webbersmw@aol.com 07914 851082

 

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